Redefining Your Boundaries Using Your Critical Sensitivies

                  Everyone has Critical Sensitivities. Identifiably Echo Imprinting on to each other is our most Primary of these Critical Sensitivities. Mutual Grooming leads to the feedback and debriefing that goes into our mutual grooming processes. We mold our individual responses to, for and with each other. This is how and why we can remember each other distinctively. Without the investment of personal attention, we wouldn't don't make any impression on each other. If I touch you here, you tell me what you feel. It's gets even easier than that. Being a sensitive is about knowing other peoples critical sensitivities. And this means exercising some real "TACT." Always be tactful. Otherwise all that awareness is just so much "Critical" nonsense.

                  Remember all those baby penguins on the beach? Their parents know who are their kin, as does the baby. {This is a very critical matter for Penguins and their survival. Identification is imperative to any family unit.} Somehow they are all mutually tuned into being identifiable with each  of their other family members. Within any type of Critical Sensitivity, is a kind voice. A directive that gives a sensitive awareness with their said sensitivity. A Circular Argument I know, but try it out. You may find for instance, that your great shopping skills aren't inherited after all. And that your sensitivities might be yours alone. And sometimes, no one understands.

                  People's individual over sensitivities come up in my work all the time. People talk to me about their uniquely informing individual sensitivities with my support.  Be they Chemical, Dietary, Social, or even merely Historical. Resolving sensitivities is crucial.
                 {The Second Law of the Para Psychological Method:
                                 2.) "Everyone has Blind Spots, and Everybody's Blind Spots are different."}

                   I myself usually need to be shown things directly, right in front of me. I benefit greatly from listening to other peoples perspectives, especially when I must only follow my own counsel exclusively. In a co auditing environment, we may be afforded opportunities to mutually reflect. Providing informed critical sensitivities and "Critical" sensing, goes along with effective co auditing. Not repeating ourselves, is a very important practice and takes some skill. The only way I've learned to be spontaneous, is out of need. I don't plan to get the opportunity to waste time repeating myself. (I wouldn't want you to have to listen to my rambling anyways.) This inclines us to an immediacy of individual personalities, complete with our individually unique sensitivities. Fortunately, sensitivities aren't that unusual. When we touch, our mutual Signaling is enhanced. This is why touch should never be trivial. Do not waste touch. When we touch, as a therapist we are mutually sharing our Nervous Systems.Vibe is a Palpable Medium. Take my pulse. Please. My job is not without enjoyable responsibilities. Always be tactful. And now for some checklists. {Forgive me good reader, there was no other way for me to get this information for you.}

                   What are your Sensitivities?
0.) Grief? Chemicals? Diet? History? Allergies?
1.) Noise? Screaming? Silence? No Screaming?
2.) Tastes? Smells? Things on your Skin? GERMS? The lack of Germs? (That one's mine.)
3.) Glare, Bright Lights, Small Print, my bad writing?
4.) Country Western Music, or the People who hate Country?
5.) Real Life's Hardships and Setbacks, Having them, Witnessing them? Pain, other Peoples
pain and Suffering? This last Election? {The long overdue End of the World?}
6.) Litter, Litterers, or is it the total lack of Litter or Litterers?                
7.) Class, Classism, The total absence of anyone with any Class at all, and of course anti classism? (Damn Communists!) And what about anger? Or other peoples Anger? Boredom? (Not my problem.)

                    Some of these examples seem very silly, but they are very common. Generally, having involuntary critical sensitivities can really mess a person's life up. People often suffer alone with these normal sensitivity issues. We've already had to re invent all of our languages just to provide people information about each other as individuals. Take humor in my absurd proposition.

                     Are you Critical of:
8.) Codes, Grammar, Anagrams, and anything else prohibitively elite or esoteric, Foreign Languages?
9.) The loss of a sense of humor? PARANOIA! A Paranoid President. (That ones also mine. Sorry.) Damn Communists? Vegan Tree Huggers?
10.) Haters? The People we love to hate, the Haters we hate to Love? Codependency? Independency?
11.) Boys, not boys? Politics? Corrupt Politics? The lack of politics? Damn Communists? The Russians? (Sorry Russia.) People who hate Russia?
                   
                     Sensitivities generally have to be managed in a measured way. Learning how to sense other peoples Twitch Cycles requires engagement with "the body and it's intelligent good sense." The body has actual smarts. "The body don't lie." Everyones individual memory recoil becomes mutually shared identifiable experience. I touch you here and you get to tell me what you feel. It's even simpler than that. Sensitives like me, are like allergies, we get an extra, if sometimes unpleasant, sense of something to come. And it can put someone into an anaphylactic shock.