Our Shared Physical Languages are the real daily lives we live together.
Sex and gender. These boundaries are dependent on our shared physical universe. This joining is also the separation, more Shared Physical Language. I am this, then you are supposed to be that which I am not. Different yet the same. One to one, and yet we don't understand each other. People come to me, hoping that me, the pro psychic teaches us all about each other. In love and in lust, in boundaries of attachment and separation, we all hope for understanding in a Shared Physical Universe.
Yet in a Wheel of Objectification we merely label people as;
#1)"Sex Objects" (No explanation needed)
#3)"Love Objects" (Romantic / Sentimental)
#2)"Objects of Worship" (Status Symbol)
#4)"Objects of Loathing" (That which we love to hate)
#0)"Security Blankets" (Central Object Attachment)
Fortunately, our Shared Physical Languages are not objectifying. Objectification is not sharing; Objectification is owning, labeling, controlling, dismissing, demeaning. Without really wanting to, we are all often swayed by the languages of objectification. I am frequently objectified for being the "Psychic." For instance,
I touch people in order to identify each of you individually, so I often get treated like I'm the attractive and potentially seducing "Sex Object."
I have a deep feeling of sensitivity supportively recognizing each individual, and I'm often seen as the desirably cherished "Love Object."
I show understanding for the presence and power of Shared Physical Languages, and I'm thus envied and worshiped as the influential and important "Status Symbol."
I show impatience and contempt for peoples prejudices towards alien cultures, so I am reviled and scapegoated for people's hostility toward the unfamiliar, on both sides of a bias. "Dogged!"
And finally because what I do is an expression of my faith in learning, I am expected to be the supportively comforting "Good Shepherd." ("Suffer the little children to come unto me." New Testament ) I'm supposed to be a "Rock."
Our Shared Physical Languages are about contact, connections. We are not objects. Finding a neutral non objectifying language is the only way we can really understand how other people see the world. And this with all of our own uniquely distinctive perspectives must be done with respect. Pro and Con. In understanding our Shared Physical Languages I advocate for a "Universal COMPLEMENTARITY."
