This page should have been about "pastimes," shared experiences, and beliefs. I want to show you the shape of your social data. As much as your taste in music and types of food do give you a shared frame of reference, we are defined by so much more. I'ld like to focus on what it is that I can give you. Sensitivity to style takes energy. It is the expression of energy that you respond to. If you choose to want to train yourself, WE ARE TRAING YOU TO BE PSYCHIC. This will take you to a place of exceptional exposure. Style is always an energetic proposition. Sorry, it's the truth.
When we get to understand our bonds of interaction between all people, we must consider having limited emotional resources. Each of us has only so much energy we can use before we get burned out. One could suggest that emotions are nothing more than energetic fields. But emotions are very slippery and understanding them is not easy. My argument is not with the absurdity of emotions but with the difficulty we have making sense out of them. Something that is emotional, acts as both a signaling and immunological barrier. But emotions as a conscious subjective resource are much more important. (Did I say everybody's emotions are different?)
It was necessary to come up with a way of mapping out these peculiarities of the emotional fields. We have also lived in, ({Soft spots} well mapped,) a shared language of subjectivity. We rarely use it. These emotional resources are easily qualifiable by the examination of the body. Language is critical. I'm sorry for being clinical about it. It is essential that I find and use an understandable language for describing and detailing the subjective. We have literally a shape to our awareness, (Perceptual Ordination/The shape of our individual senses.) An emotional field is just one example. There is also a kinesthetic boundary of awareness (Touch, Taste and Smell), a visual range of perception and even equilibrium for balance (A Sense of Place), that all can be experienced subjectively at the same time, (that's a lot.) As subjective awarenesses have no material substance, we have only our bodies to speak for our awareness.
Mirroring someone is one way of defining shared emotional space. Just imitating someone, however isn't always a compliment. There are also many other ways of defining boundaries of awareness, (Conflict Resolution, Neurolinguistics, Active Listening.) Most of my work always seems to come down to defining boundary conditions. There is the boundary of self. There are also boundaries of contact. As well, there are group identities and "Self Defined Boundaries of Distinction," (mostly defined by social identification, membership or groups. {i,e. I am a boy, white, I am a gym rat, I like girls, etc.)
Most of our daily emotional resources can be used up everyday, just like needing to eat or sleep. If we are not able to recharge our emotional budget, we can experience life like someone who is hungry or tired. There are so many different factors to our daily needs. Life was very different for our ancestors. They experienced much emotional pain and grief. Since then, infant mortality has dropped in this country steadily. The Industrial Revolution and immigration has helped to bring millions of my fellow citizens to the U.S. People have come to live much longer here in the states. Emotional variables have continued to change for each generation, especially for those of us who are employable and enjoy longer lives. Unlike most of us, many of our ancestors lived through much more difficulty. Life is still hard for everyone, but they had to deal with grief as a consequence of almost daily living. There are many people alive today who are still living with war and poverty.
When I look at your hand I'm seeing your family history. It's not in my interpretation of the hand. Partly because of the mythological significance of palm reading, most people have never really looked at their own hands. Much less do we inspect and examine each others. There are still places where you could be killed for being a palm reader. Start with eye training. Just look. I know what I'm asking.
If you decide to start doing this you will have little difficulty looking at hands. Cut yourself a lot of slack here especially at the beginning. Most people will want a palm reading. And I do mean everyone. It may be worth it for you, simply for that surprise of uncertainty. That joy of wonder. No answers, just clear understanding. Oh come on, I know you can do this. People will love you when you make what you say the truth. Come on. I want to hear you say it. "I Don't Know."
I want so much to make this easy and understandable. PEOPLE WANT TO BE RECOGNIZED. And you will never know what it's like until you start to do it. The books are just a way to see what you can look for. Interpretation is something learned by exposure. People will be showing a lot more than they realize. They will be thinking about their fate line. You"ll be looking at size, shape, texture, coloring, depth, sensitivity, subtle motion. This is a lot easier with time. Your resources allow you to absorb that distinctiveness for each person. and interpret what you see. As a reader you don't have to be right. You must be sensible. PEOPLE WANT TO BE RECOGNIZED.
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