Spheres of Influence / Planes of Emotional Contact

                   Hopi Pueblo (Native American). Kachina Doll (Pahlikmana), late 19th century
               
                   We've created a peaceful place to interact, where the difficulties of daily living will not interfere. The thrill of love is a moment without attachment or expectation. People remember being loved. We all need the self security to love vulnerably. (Hence the uncertainty and risk.) A trip to a far away place, an unfamiliar encounter. Finding love in someone unfamiliar or unexpected. Romantically, "There is no love greater than a love that was never meant to be." That fear of rejection comes from innocence, modesty and virtue. We all strive to be loved. 4th rule. Person to person. Love is a moment of freedom. Don't be confused by attachment. Love and passion are not the same thing.

                  Boundaries Between Individual Spheres of Influence Form the Interpersonal Planes of Contact. Encounter Boundaries. Information Statements, {Me&You}. Shared experiences form life's romances. For better or for worse. The flow of information is mutual. We live together.
                 
                  Religions can help us to structure our memories. It is all about us living together. We keep all the family records. Your unique P. P. I. (Personal Profile Inventory) replaces the clerical religions for recording personalized soul memory. For those of you reading along, the thought of embodying self inside a soul craft probable seems unlikely. But the beauty of life is in living with each other, in soul.

                  Information seeks information. Experience seeks experience. Records seek more records. Contact seeks contact. Sharing, we all come from a family, whether ours or someone else's. You may argue, where was the love in my family when terrible things were happening? Valid question, it is for us as individuals to find, often without family.

                 "What church do you go to?"
                 "Which school do your children go to?"
                 Or, "Do you even have any children at all? These vital statistics match the profile perfectly. Demographics are a social animal profile. Emotionally, as well as proximally, we do well to share life's experiences with each other, controlled measure. Neighbors, friends and family. These are our planes of emotion contact. People and time are very precious.

                   Take a breath. You've earned it. People remember being loved. Most people do. I do love people and I have a really good memory. I want to listen.  I share that feeling of love with people. Passively. Warm Spheres of Influence. I like people and people like me. (And I will love you to death, mind you.) I'm a very lucky man. How else do we remember things? Sensitive boundaries are in human contact. {Kachina Spirits are believed to be from the stars.}

                   Hopi Pueblo (Native American). Kachina Doll (Pahlikmana), late 19th century