Social Linking Phenomena (+)

                                                     
                        This page is about "pastimes," shared experiences, and beliefs. I want to show you how to shape your own social data. As much as your tastes in music and your types of food, give you a shared frame of reference, we are defined by so much more. Sensitivity to style takes energy. Style is what you respond to. If you train yourself to be sensitive to style, YOU CAN TRAIN YOURSELF TO BE A PSYCHIC. This will take you to a place of exceptional  exposure. Style is always an energetic proposition. Style can't be faked.

                        When we understand the bonds of interaction between people, we, consider having limited emotional resources. Each of us has only so much energy we can use before we get burned out. One could suggest that emotions are nothing more than energetic fields. But emotions are very slippery and understanding them is not easy. My argument is not with the absurdity of emotions, but with the difficulty we have making sense out of them. Something that is emotional, acts as both a signaling and an immunological barrier. Emotions are a conscious subjective resource, and so much more. (Did I say everybody's emotions are different?)

                        Emotional resources are measured by examining the body. Language is critical. I'm sorry for being clinical about this. It's essential we find an understandable language for describing and detailing the subjective. We literally shape awareness, (Perceptual Ordination shapes our individual senses.) An emotional field is just one example. There is also a kinesthetic boundary awareness (Touch, Taste and Smell), and a visual range of perception and even an equilibrium for balance. (A Sense of Place) All this can be experienced subjectively at the same time. (And that's a lot.) As a subjective awareness has no material substance, we have only our bodies to speak for awareness. (Spinoza was the first philosopher to write about a non duality of being.) The body is the thing.

                       Mirroring someone is one way of defining shared a emotional space. Imitating someone, however isn't always flattering. There are many ways of defining the boundaries of Inter Sensory Awareness, (Conflict Resolution, Neurolinguistics, Active Listening.) Most of my work always seems to come down to defining boundary conditions. There is the boundary of self. There are also boundaries of contact. As well, there are group identities and "Self Defined Boundaries of Distinction," (mostly defined by social identification, membership or groups. {i,e. I am a boy, white, I am a gym rat, I like girls, etc. etc. etc.}

                        Most of our daily emotional resources can get used up everyday, just like needing to eat or sleep. If we are not able to recharge our emotional batteries, we experience life like someone who is hungry or tired. There are so many different factors to our daily needs. Life was very different for our ancestors. They experienced much daily emotional pain and grief. Since then, infant mortality has dropped in my country steadily. The Industrial Revolution and immigration has helped to bring millions of my fellow citizens to the U.S. People have come to live much longer as well, here in the states. Emotional variables have continued to change for each generation, especially for those of us who are employable and enjoy longer lives. Unlike us, most of our ancestors lived through much harder lives. Life is still hard for everyone, but they had to deal with grief as a consequence of daily living. There are still many people alive today who live with war and poverty.

                        When I look at your hands, I'm seeing your family history. Partly because of the mythological significance of palm reading, most people have never really looked at their own hands. Much less do we inspect and examine each other's hands. There are still places where you could be killed for being a palm reader. Start with eye training. Just look. I know what I'm asking.

                        If you decide to start doing this you will have little difficulty looking at peoples hands. Cut yourself a lot of slack, especially at the beginning. Most people will want a palm reading. And I do mean nearly everyone. It may be worth it for you, simply for that surprise of uncertainty of not knowing. That joy of wondering, with no answers, just understanding. Oh come on, I know you can do this. People will love you when you make what you say the truth.  Come on. I want to hear you be able to say it. "I Don't Know." It's the perfect place to start.

                       I want so much to make this easy and understandable. PEOPLE WANT TO BE RECOGNIZED. And you will never know what it's like until you start to do it. The books are just a way to see what you can look for. Interpretation is something learned by exposure. People will be showing you a lot more than they realize. They will be thinking about their own fate line. You"ll be looking at the size, shape, texture, coloring, depth, sensitivity and subtle motion of their hands. This gets a lot easier over time. Your resources allow you to absorb that distinctiveness for each person. And then report and interpret what you see. As a reader you don't have to be right. You must be sensible. ALL  HEALTHY PEOPLE WANT TO BE RECOGNIZED. Have fun.